Can we involve our children in the Renewal of Vows service?
Can we involve our children in the renewal of vows service? You bet! In fact, this is one of the most popular reasons why a couple may renew their vows in the first place. Including your family in your ceremony is a wonderful way to celebrate your familial love and your respect for the place in your marriage.
Your family may have grown since your initial wedding ceremony; if so, a renewal of vows ceremony could be a special way to celebrate the new arrivals role in your family and your marriage. Involving your children in the renewal of vows ceremony is a memorable, meaningful opportunity to include them in this precious moment in time.
How can we involve our children in the renewal of vows ceremony?
You can involve your children in the renewal of vows ceremony with symbolic additions such as lighting candles together, planting a tree or taking part in a Sand Ceremony to mention a few. Your child could even walk you up the aisle or say a few words as part of the service.
There are so many options to potentially think about and ways to personalise your experience if you would like to. Just a handful include:
- Mentioning them in your vows
- Having the children as ushers
- Presenting your children with a special gift
- Include them in a unity ritual
- Include them in hand fasting
- Having them share one of their lovely talents (such as a sweet performance for the party)
Your Celebrant will help offer inspiration and guidance as to how to make the ceremony memorable and perfect for your family.